Back To the Future--Nancy Williams

This morning my phone rang at 6:40 am. Caller ID said it was Nancy Williams--of all the back to the future posts I've done this one is special--at least to me.





In 1964 I was graduating high school, dating a girl I cared about, looking forward to the University of Richmond. My next door neighbor (Beth Brown) kept telling me I should meet a friend of hers. On a Friday night after a picnic at Elkhorn Recreation Club (a lake I was about to start work at as a lifeguard) Beth told me her friend Nancy Williams would be a slumber party not far from my house. Beth said I should come by and Nancy would sneak out to meet me. I went over there late that night, met Nancy and my life over the next few years changed dramatically.





To say I was smitten would be an understatement. I broke up with my girl friend (Diane Boy) within days. I handled that so well that 20 years later at a high school reunion she stared right through me. I dated Nancy that summer, and headed off to college. Lots of stuff happens when you leave home for college but Nancy always remained special. I remember one time I went to a car race at VIR with a bunch of college friends. I ran into her and we wound up totally immersed in one another again. I can't remember all the other times we re-connected over the years but I do remember she once told me (at UR fraternity party) that I lived in a much faster lane than she did. That's when 3 year's age difference was a big deal since I was in college while Nancy was in high school.





I still remember the day I got an invitation/announcement in 1972 that she was getting/got married. That was one of the saddest days in my life because my first true love had chosen some one else. I've re-connected with a fair number of friends from my past but until now Nancy had eluded me. It's hard to find folks when their last name can change.





So how did this re-connection happen? I joined the classmates.com web site since my 45th high school reunion is next year. I think our class has only had 3 (1974, 1984, 2004) and I didn't know about 2004. Anyway a few days ago Nancy showed up as a visitor. An email from me led to an early morning call from her, a follow up email and an invitation to a "phone date" scheduled for later this weekend. I've never experienced a phone date before. But whenever Nancy Williams enters my life I've always been willing to re-connect.





This morning when I saw her name on caller ID I felt like Back to the Future star Michael J Fox in the Delorean transported back in time. I know one can't turn back time, but I'm still smitten by the memory of Nancy Williams--even 44 years later.

More on the bailout

Now that our government passed the bailout Paulsen and others are re allocating where it goes. Remember I said they were asking for all that money and telling us "trust us we'll figure out who deserves it."

Now many other sectors are coming forward asking for funds. They all begin their request with how crucial their survival is to our economic system along with the refrain "you already bailed out AIG, Freddie Mac, Fannie Mae, etc"

That's the problem with government "bailing out" troubled sectors. As they "kick the can further down the road" the parade just gets longer. This week Chrysler, Ford & GM are begging. But when the 3 spokesmen fly to DC from Detroit in 3 separate corporate jets why would any rational person listen to their plea? Clearly those 3 just don't get it. I'm sorry that many folks will suffer if sectors of our economy fail. I may also suffer, but I'd risk that in exchange for a free market system that sorts things out over time instead of relying on government corrections/interference.

Looking back to the great depression, many experts feel that Roosevelt's "New Deal" prolonged the depression for 7-10 years when market forces would have corrected the economy in 3-4 years. I majored in economics so I know economies go through cycles. I was also taught that government's role was to act as a stimulus when times got slow and a restraint when things got too fast, eg inflation. One economic principle I learned way back then was government was more effective slowing things down than stimulating the economy. Personally I'm not sure our government is effective at much any more except mortgaging future generations with a ton of financial obligations.

Kick the can, kick the can.......maybe someday we'll figure out how to refill it instead.

Favorite Movies

My favorite top 10 movies in no particular order:


My Dog Skip


Shane


The Sting


Five Easy Pieces


Cool Hand Luke


Old Yeller


African Queen


Remember the Titans


The Deerhunter


Hombre


The Natural



Breaking Away