During Thanksgiving I drove to Duck NC to visit my cousin Tim Brown. I saw him at my aunt's funeral in January for first time in over 40 years. When he and his wife Mia invited me to spend Thanksgiving on the outer banks at a house they rented I'm thinking Georgia--North Carolina no problem. After committing I realized it was 600 miles--ouch. But once I commit I rarely back down so Greta & I made the trip.
It was a great experience to spend quality time with a relative I hadn't been close to in a long time, meet his wife and extended family. It seems easy for me to connect with relatives even after years apart. I've done a lot to accomplish reconnections over the past few years. I wish it happened more often but with 20 cousins spread all over the east & west coast & few places in between it hasn't occurred with some of them.
Tim and I went on bike rides Thursday & Friday. Both days I ran into friends I hadn't seen in quite a while. On Thursday as we were finishing up a car pulled along side us and called out my name. It was a guy named John Green who I had worked with years ago. His wife Jennifer (who I introduced him to) was with him along with their 10 month old daughter (Sophie). We stopped along the roadside and had a quick conversation update and exchanged email addresses. The next day we cycled to the Wright Brothers Memorial and as we were leaving I heard someone call my name. It was Hetal from a team I coached a few years ago who had moved to India and just returned to Atlanta. Again another quick update and a promise to ride together in Atlanta. Two connections in 24 hours--my cousin is asking me are you sure you haven't been here before?
On Saturday I headed to Staunton to see Nancy Williams. I shared a recollection of her in earlier post Not sure how much of that reconnection I'm willing to share here--maybe someday in the future. All I'll say for now-- it was memorable and special.
